Welcome! This forum has a treasure trove of great info – Scouters helping Scouters! Just a heads up, though - all content, information, and opinions shared on this forum are those of the author, not the BSA.
I would recommend contacting your local council and ask them to use their Registrar tools to look up your Scouts and go to the User Relationships section and update those so that They are listed there as the Users Children with 141383333
It’s worth noting since you probably haven’t seen a million of these, @TamaraPfeiffer, that the council registrar is the only one who can execute this step for you. None of the volunteers on the groups here has that access.