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I run a report showing all of the required merit badges that the scouts need for advancement. Is it possible to sort those badges that are one of two or three to choose from to show that the requirement has been met with one of them.
If it helps, the screenshot shows my report which I have highlighted the badges that go together and then checked who has completed the required badge. If they could be sorted together it would help.
I see what you are asking - but that is also asking alot - when all you have to do is look at either this report or the scouts advancement page. Secondary levels of variables that do change is where things get stuck in Scoutbook (look at planned advancements in Calendar.)