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I have a Scoutbook.com account that shows my pack, troop and crew rosters. I am key 3 for the pack, and CoAdvisor and key 3 delegate for crew. I just downloaded the mobile app but cannot log in. I get a message that I must be a parent.
I am a parent of a crew member who appears in my scoutbook.com roster where I am listed as her parent.
Do you see your daughter under my dashboard > administration > my family? If not, go back into the connection and click update. Then, log off and back on.