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We have linked troops girls and boys, we add both troops to all events. When I use the feature assistant to add new boy scouts to calendar events all the girls are deleted from all the selected events.
I will try to add example and screenshots later today. Getting it up here quickly to see if anyone has a quick fix. Thanks!