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The mother BSA ID 140326223 is connected and visible under Relationships but no longer shows up as being able to select for emails or calendar invites. Her email is active in the system.
The Father BSA ID 140537277 was connected under the Relationships but is no longer there. However, he shows up under emails and calendars as an adult I can send invites and emails to.
I just checked this. The.dad is now on the relationships on the youth profile. I can send emails to both parents under messages, but only the dad is on the invite list for any calendar invites. The mom is no where to be found on the calendar invite lists.