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@PaulThomas4 The mother’s accounts look OK. Ask her to try to reset her password at my.Scouting using the chatbot (“Betty”). When it asks: “Do you remember your password?”, she can say No to bypass. Her BSA member ID number is: 14453745.
The father does not appear to have a username (login) at my.scouting. Ask him to create an account at my.Scouting and try to match with his already existing BSA member ID number: 14453778.
@PaulThomas4 Correction: The mother’s zip code is missing. I think she probably needs help from the local council for a direct password reset. Then she can add her zip code or they can add it for her.